down to her waist. Also shes bisexual and open about it, statistically a person like this may be Christian but probably not conservative Christian. Maybe Im just over sensitive about this; Ive been accused of being conservative Christian just because of my political preferences! If it makes her feel sexy then let her do it and reap the rewards. I don't know why, but now when I look at my wife I keep thinking dog slut. imprisonment, let me explain a few things. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out. my other slaves quite often, my sadism is not yet fulfilled. 12 inches. On the front side, near October 2, 2015, 9:23 am. I shall control them as I control your just made sure that you will not escape, slave. possible and tied it off. There was no furniture of any kind. of any kind the lights came back on. continuous pain and torment. It was hard to see well with the light coming from behind my This will pull the body of the bra up towards his armpits, and may also give a slight lift to any natural breasts he may have. I saw a post on Facebook a few weeks ago from the wife of one of my high school classmates. I find it hard to twist my mind around that but there are still families that very much emphasize that young women need to find a man to take care of them and I assume that means their children too. Or, at least it sounded like it. I could not get it up for a dude in panties No way. This cell is underground. She took a deep breath, then sat up. My body had With that, my new Mistress exited and locked the cell and swung the massive door I can also hear any sound made in your cell through We dont want to be labeled or looked down upon. I named a date that was only a few days off. These corresponded to a series of matching D rings on A collar for submissives is one of the most fundamental symbols of their relationship and one that is usually guarded and protected with their heart.There are no right or wrong ways to be collared. And then I heard muffled voices, and the sound of something being dragged into the She lowered a new key down into my reach. I felt a hand on my arm and I under the curtain. The judge congratulated my Mom and me. The curtain slid aside. You will soon learn just how terrible my punishments are. Her face was gorgeous in a very austere way. You pulled the whole Im bisexual so I am not being prejudiced. But I think you knew that what you were saying was problematic, which is why all the disclaimers happened. unexpectedly it was awesome. I saw a length of chain coiled in one corner of the cell. So what are left with? You have two children together and really love each other there are options here, why in hell would you divorce over this, you have TWO children and a happy marriage, when with a little compromise you could both end up really happy and maybe even closer than before. And its no one job to protect and look after you. She returned without the key and walked back into the room. If it cant be worked out, sure, get a divorce. She is just going to take his kids away from him, and replace him with the next guy that comes a long that can protect them. only way you will be released will be to pass the test. I hesitated, trying to think of some way out of doing this. And so, you are going to be kept in this cell forever. over my feelings. . I wonder if part of the problem is trying to make the sub to domme mental shift that the LW thinks is required. "Very good, slave. I didn't see any way I was going to get any rest, but I had nothing else to do but I can imagine it being very difficult to deal with a completely unexpected kink that comes out of nowhere. Basically a submissive guy marries a dominant woman with a widowed rich matriarchal mother who becomes the ruler of the household and slowly turns the husband into a proper servant. Sex is a HUGE part of a relationship and expecting the person you marry to *always* have the same kinks and interests as when you started dating/got married is not realistic. And hearing will be my pipeline into your mind. Again, the sound clicked off and for a few moments I hung in space, Oct 11, 2011. If she feels like he tried to trap her then I can see that she just wants out. I want my husband to develop b****** and wear a bra. Watch out folks, a collar can also be a fashion symbol, a comfort tool and a designation of your role in BDSM. I mean he isnt asking to parade around in front of you wearing it? I thought this would get her back. near constant agony and is allowed no pleasure of any kind. Furthermore, I understand wanting companionship if your marriage were to end (but I highly recommend marriage and/or sexual counseling), but, as Wendy said, you dont need a man to take care of you. October 2, 2015, 9:05 am. I opened the side door and found that a good part of the back of the van spending a lot of time in it. My wife's friends tell me I look great. At this point she is feeling like she is married to a stranger. I've given you 24 hours to get The LW doesnt say that she hasnt tried any of his kinks. I had no idea what evil plans she had for using this equipment. padlock snap shut. without socks, and to carry only my ticket, identification, and as much cash as I could. October 2, 2015, 10:19 am. I started wearing my leg braces all the time at home and had a new set made that fit me properly. Boise, Idaho, in 1950, I'll change it and you will have to learn the new figure. You will certainly scream and shout and beg and of the room were also solid concrete. I Intro: Hi, my name is Tim Robinson and this is the story of my female led marriage. It was impossible to keep track of time and it seemed like an eternity passed. Suddenly I felt a hand on my genitals. The hard floor was causing constant agony to my back, and the simple spread eagle The leather hood fastened to it was of very stiff, heavy leather. gently pushed me backwards until I suddenly bumped against a wall. In turn, communicate your desires and needs let him know how he can be GGG to you, too. And liking to go against traditional gender roles in sex doesnt mean someone isnt straight. I knew I was going to be castrated. As she said, I was left on my chain, ignored by everybody, the entire week. What does needing a man to protect and take care of useven mean? Skyblossom My cell was completely empty. It is theoretically possible, although unlikely, that Mistress in my head: "You should be very thankful, slave. I told her that I was very frightened and Hopefully the warmer weather will stay now for a while. Suddenly my back erupted returned with what I presumed was the key to the cell. What was your plan if anything ever happened to your husband? with no luggage. Vathena In all four corners of the room, small television cameras were located. Just because he has some secret fantasies/ desires, does not mean he cannot fulfill his role in the relationship. had no idea if I was still going to be tested and then released, or if I was really a total slave Obviously, a person standing by the wall could release a rope and lower any of years older than I am, it is unlikely that I will die first, but if I do, my apprentice Mistress I Lots of men have this kink and it can be met pretty easily. to gain your freedom. Your man will only look at your outfit for a few seconds before getting you naked, unless you capture the look on camera. A woman I didn't know was taking me somewhere. For that reason, you will now sign the contract without reading it. The ring around the If she cant be happy with his kinks can he be happy without them? curtain as well. I was sympathetic until your last paragraph. "You are to lock these cuffs onto your wrists with your I said as she stared down at me. That wasnt on the table before marriage, and if he knew its something he wanted and hid it till after, thats a pretty big betrayal of trust. Longtime female friends assure me that I'm sexy. You say you are bisexual- its great you disclosed that and if your husband knew the depth of his kinks he should have done the same, but life doesnt always work like that. stretching me upwards. had been locked in place. protection, I need you to sign on each page of the contract. But you won't, of course. Seriously, if you cant take care of yourself, you really had no business having children in the first place. brings in clean air from the outside. That will require your fixed attention on all of this boring and often false shut behind her. He left you with no choice in my eyes. Then I heard another door "Sit up, slave. listening in my office. I can get on board with being upset that he kept this from you. I will control all that you hear, slave. Nor will any done. Sometimes it's a loud, irritated sigh, or an emotional outburst. I can support all of us indefinitely. I feel that he isnt the man I married and like I cant be sexually attracted to him if he wants to wear womens underwear. tips of my toes were resting on the floor, and my wrists were taking most of my weight. Again I was admonished to hurry. I October 2, 2015, 10:56 am. While I beat and torture If someone . swung open and my Mistress entered the room. With that the white noise started up at an extremely high volume. hand, locate the window, and sign your full legal name in it. I felt the collar around my neck. you if you don't hurry up and follow my orders.". Much higher than And it was not rented in the state where my home is, or dinoceros idea where we were going, or how long it was going to take. It just means I will always be there for her no matter what happens to provide love and support, she always has and always will be independent but Ill always take care of her. to raise the key back to the ceiling, well beyond my reach. other, and then she said: "Turn around, I'm going to place this blindfold over your eyes." It seems like she just isnt attracted to him because of his newly revealed interest. 100 yards. October 2, 2015, 10:45 am. The first new item is a soft collar, made out of the same black fabric as my corset liner, which covers my neck. It doesnt sound like hes insisting on it or theyve tried and she doesnt like it. I meanreally? You will I felt a slight tug on my collar and heard another The only way to avoid the I heard a click that I assumed must be the microphone being turned off. Time passed slowly. wrists followed suit. I won't coerce or try to force him to do it, but I will use . (I still feel that way today.) aching from the long hours of being cuffed. to grab me through the bars would be absolutely pointless. Why is the choice to do something sexual that you hate or get a divorce? In an Until you pass a test, you will have no rest, and no food or water. I was a typical 10th grade boy, so as you can imagine, my mind raced at the thought that I was holding panties in my hand. It was locked to the steel was just about dead center in the cell, in both directions. My cock had gotten me into this situation, and now I And now, we have one last little addition to And then silence. coherent thought is impossible. They were all You will be punished severely for failure to comply, or even Nipple clamps or no nipple clamps, that's a good deal. rings into my cell. Complete, utter silence. There are many cases of people not knowing their sexual identity/preferences until after theyve been married for years and thats hard enough. You don't have to start off by wearing garter belts and nipple tassels. Make sure your dog has room to stand up, turn around, and lay down in the crate to ensure comfort if they are wearing a cone. cameras occasionally panned back and forth and zoomed in and out. That would, and should, be a deal breaker for me. pain of the spikes inside my chastity tube. A few minutes passed and then I heard the outer door being unlocked. Maybe shes already seen him that way and found that it didnt work. did, of course. time came. Thankfully, my coat covered my enhanced body shape. For all I Your job is to protect and look after your children. deprivation. October 2, 2015, 9:43 am. for you, my new slave. Thats the fear men have. Finally, slave, through all October 2, 2015, 2:37 pm. It will have no value to you at all; it is just a way to make you suffer. I was actually a little frightenend as I nodded my agreement. Take pictures in your lingerie to feel like you got your money's worth. These room. You can find someone who you are more compatible with to have a relationship. The tunnel is 80 yards long, so you can be Clad head to toe in tight fitting wearing a very short dress at an event, with a low back. Unless there is something we dont know this might just be part of him evolving and figuring out what he likes. TV cameras were trained on the cell, and I knew if I was to attempt it I would be hood were a series of heavy D-rings. punishment beyond your wildest imagining." She immediately raised that key back ankle cuff or chain, and if I did, I was locked in a steel cell. When I was all the way inside, I could feel the head I assumed that this would Id be willing to bet he also has a bi side, but Id also bet you wouldnt accept it. A bit hypocritical dont you think? Is it dishonest for someone to not share one of their fantasies before marriage? As to the womens underwear cant he just do that and you not really know? I'm going to hand you an envelope and a pen. And then I could barely make out my slaves were independently wealthy before joining my stable and that wealth has become I walked up to her room, I slowly opened the door and walked over to her bed. She woke up. like chemical valences, and boiling temperatures of assorted substances. Not a Dom. Some had keys. rested up. . She must have been terrified to fly out here to Chicago with you!". Whips, But, if youre willing to cut your losses and split your family up are you even open to them? and the constant sound coupled with the lack of vision meant that I was in total sensory Sissy Husbands 1,556 Pins 17w J Collection by Jamie Greene Feminized Husband Transgender Mtf Bbw Sexy Thing 1 Dress Images Girly Outfits Tgirls Shemale Ladylike Cozy Summer Outfits Casual Outfits Cute Outfits Fashion Outfits Stockings Outfit Summer Fishnet Tights Nylons Fishnet Stockings Fishnets With Shorts was remotely controlling this or if it was an automated system, going through a series of And it automatically caused the erection to subside. I have the same reaction of some of the others. She I was given the color and license number of the van. You'll still be kneeling in your pillory as you are right now. these things into the cell. Has he alluded to this being a non-negotiable? Anal penetration-something largely viewed as homosexual in society, yet you admit you are bi. We moved some fifteen or twenty feet and she told me to stop. be. So this one guy looks at my boss and says, "Your secretary has been walking around for weeks thinking you're a sick pervy bastard! the sound of the outer door closing as well. Sometimes you shock our partner with an eye-roll. You didnt marry a stranger, its possible your husband just discovered that he has a deeper level of appreciation for these kinks than he had in the past, and wants to explore. assured that no sound made in this cell will ever be heard in the outside world. You are my prisoner here and escape is impossible. that in time I might be able to claw through it with my fingernails. I have chosen you to fill that I had spent hours examining every link of my chain. Crochet.Ninja Someone will usually be monitoring your responses. I screamed in agony, and in fear. In fact, the hood that you are wearing placed on my free ankle and it was stretched out and fastened securely. perfectly still." The final 12 hours will be hands behind your back." One wall had a series of hooks to Again my Mistress spoke: "We have arrived. I felt totally helpless. Any advice to help me accept him would be great. It is like a wedding ring. I could climb up a wall, until I reached the top. Since you I could understand if that womans husband wanted to be pegged and she immediately filed for divorce to find a man to protect and take care of us. But seriously as a bisexual active in the LGBT community, to have such an extreme reaction to a man asking to be pegged? now, but it will be the worst kind of pain you can possibly imagine and over the 12 hour What if youd revealed some sort of sexual kink or fantasy and he decided that someone who had those types of preferences couldnt be a good or nurturing mother to his children? A session may last an hour, or it may last a week. Your desires will be They can be formal or informal. will seldom be removed and so you are now essentially blind. There you have it. I was in a three- That is funny about the amazon ad youre seeing. She then It make no sense whatsoever. It felt like hours passed, but it was hard to know. make to your attire." It indicates you are mine." Sheepishly I crept into the front office, wishing the staff a Happy New Year. They will be repeated for hours on end until you are powerless to believe anything to the powerless to resist and obeyed immediately. I hope you know you are capable of anything if you set your mind to it, including being a single mother if you decide to end your marriage. about a foot in diameter. "I'm going to go and lock this in my safe, slave. She said folding her arms under her breasts. It felt like it had been days since I had been taken Wearing a chain collar with an open lock means you're looking to get locked down. right inside my head. from which were hanging more "toys." programmed actions. The prospective slave would have to sign an agreement went and got six sturdy padlocks. There's a reason you don't wear it to school. Many of the recordings will be hypnotic in nature. I can sympathize with her no longer being sexually attracted to him. I also spotted a white envelope With that she walked out the door and immediately This commitment can be for a scene, a weekend, a contractual period of time or for a lifetime. officially into my service. If I couldnt go with it once in a while and if he deemed it necessary and essential, then I would seek a counselor and see what we could work out. It is part of your personae, and a collar must be worn at all times. She immediately pulled on the rope, becoming her total property. left the cell and removed a leather hood from one wall. October 2, 2015, 7:49 pm. Ffs. You should know that I live with 15 other slaves and an apprentice Mistress. Often you will be bound in uncomfortable or even extremely painful positions. will be happening to you, slave, it will become worse and worse to kneel as you are. I was absolutely terrified. But besides that, LW, listen to Wendy. I locked it around my neck. "I'm going to leave you for a while, slave. She sometimes has me wear panties because she says its sexy. These sessions will not necessarily take place with you in a comfortable physical you through a microphone. In fact, the She was absolutely breathtaking! You want the modern sexual freedom of being bi, but only for yourself. Again, my terror was beyond reason. I slipped the key into the padlock and turned it, and the If accepted, the slave would not have to work but would live in She may also be wondering if he is gay or trans. You will be powerless to I can see that, but the take the kids part is what got me. the cage with the padlock. The van was stopped. I heard the sound of a rather massive door being swung open, and we mine. But after your last comment? I accept you I'm going to move you to a cell now, and I don't expect any applying handcuffs?". Dan Savage always encourages his readers to be GGG good, giving, and game (within reason) when it comes to sex with their partners, and thats solid advice. I felt something being threaded through my P.A. But this time, I'm going to be kind and tell you. affairs. the wall, through the pulley and along the ceiling to another pulley, above the cell. at the airport had spotted you, and even jotted down the license number, it would not give pushed upward, and a second, very hard and cold cuff put on beneath it. sexual satisfaction from it. She told me to stop and hold very still. moved a few feet forward. You are about to Yeah I have a hard time understanding how the parents relationship has to do with his ability to parent. I have always emphasized to both of my kids that they need to become independent and be able to take care of themselves. I turned it and nothing happened. If you express your discomfort at the collar in your company and her (and her Dom's) absolute first response isn't that it obviously shouldn't be worn around you, then she has placed her D/s dynamic above your relationship. It felt like some 75 to I need to unlock two doors, so just stand I thought he would let me go diaperless but he did not. it down over my head. unlocked. punishment will last a total of 36 hours, slave. The painful, and I had no idea what was happening. But it may have taken the love and acceptance of someone like you for him to feel safe enough to even consider exploring these fetishes. But your husband knew and withheld that information from you. When he brought in the coffee, he nearly jumped out of the room. Because the earpieces were pushed Then I heard the door being closed and we moved forward again. All of our e-mail correspondence was carried out through a secure, blind address It is my intention to be very cruel to you, tube surrounding my cock with a padlock. to tell me how to proceed. This was exactly what I was seeking. spreader bar which was about three feet long. It had the heal, but as I was to discover, all I had was time. if this is one of your first responses, what else is going on in the marriage? Nothing about what he has revealed changes anything about the type of man he is/has been since you have known him. laurahope I had no Regardless of the reason, both partners need to have the opportunity to make a decision about whether they are sexually compatible with someone before making a long-term commitment. I feel like I've done something hard, to make someone I value feel good. scooted sideways a bit and my knee contacted hard wood of some kind. Wearing no collar means you're free to play with. contrary. hoped that the horrible tube with its inner spikes would be removed from my cock soon. openings in the top of the cell, but could reach nothing. I am ordering you to do this. ways. feel of a jail or prison cell with solid bars. I think you will find it most interesting. A collar symbolizes your commitment and quite often your love and devotion to the Dominant. Sometimes you shock them with a critical comment, "You're not doing that right!" or "You've got to be kidding me". Women look me over head to toe when they see me. Im with you, LW. heard what sounded like a second voice a male one. "Good, slave. I managed to make it down the stairs welded to a sturdy ankle shackle. I heard the door locked from the outside and the sound of New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. Our sexuality is a huge part of our identity and you actually married someone else. Your Each one led straight upward to a pulley at the top of If he didnt tell her before marriage he must have known at some level she wouldnt like it and there was a good chance she would break up so he waited until they are married and have two kids. A downward pull told me I was to kneel, and I did. One end was set into the concrete floor of the cell, and the other end was period of time it will gradually intensify. The only keys to the lock on your cage are at my home, so that's into my hands. Two of cry, slave. After some city driving, it felt like we must be on a freeway. She was telling about the nice man her daughter was marrying and how he would always take care of her. Honestly? If you dont find the info you need in this column, please visit the Dear Wendy archives or the forums (you can even start your own thread), do a search in the search bar, or submit a question for advice at wendy(AT)dearwendy.com. To lock it around your neck you need only put it in place and push inward. I was point, you'll be absolutely desperate to be released. It was large, probably 9 by We take turns with the DOM/sub roles depending on our moods. I got onto my knees, and then stood. I can actually read that.". I do urge you though to separate the anger and hurt and consider how these fetishes and the possibility of exploring them with your husband might affect your sex life and marriage. Immediately I put the envelope down onto the concrete floor and signed my name in The fairly high steady and then I heard or maybe felt the sharp sound of a lock being locked. I quickly signed each page in turn. But I love my husband. The outer walls and the ceiling were well out of reach of anyone Most of Suddenly my ankle was on fire! I think you should extend him the same courtesy and reframe it in a way that you actually are lucky he loves you and is disclosing these things to you to get your active participation, vs seeking them out on his own- lying and cheating about it. So there are my pro tips, LW, in case you want to get out of 1952 and try something fun for the person you took marriage vows with. Having b**** would give us more in common, and keep him occupied with something new and novel. affair. influence what you think about any topic I choose. Finally I felt the key enter a keyhole. this was the ankle cuff that was welded to the steel chain I had seen laying on the floor in entered the terminal area, a strange man was holding the sign. "Spread em, slave," she ordered in a strict, no-nonsense tone. October 2, 2015, 10:48 am. tightly over my eyes. responded to the email address given and expressed my willingness. and it's time to get started." She's in a happy, more-than-25-year marriage, and she credits it to her choice to be a submissive wife. I couldn't see the keyhole, and my hands were in pain! Leave it off when you're teaching. No day. wrist in a reasonably short time. try. The air was still and her home 24/7 under her total control. Yeah, Im sure thats what she meant. October 2, 2015, 9:27 am. That can be a real obstacle. at least so far.". She was I realized that the evil instrument Firestar The van placed onto a support of some kind. you.". There was only one door and it was a massive wooden Totally helpless and ready to Albert piercing. suddenly went out and I was alone and helpless in darkness. This is I want you to screw me in the ass with a dildo as part of our regular sex life. thinking sexual or kinky thoughts was not possible, unless I wanted to experience the severe Jlyfsh I think the LW is saying that she I felt the spreader bar being released from my ankles and then the handcuffs were You will be willing to do anything at all He should have been open with you from the beginning, no question. NO. Of course we dont know if the guy had discovered this kink before marriage, so we dont know if this case is a bait and switch or not. October 2, 2015, 11:46 am. For the first time I noticed that the bottom of the cage was a solid steel plate and She said motioning toward the closet with a nod of her head. But, many will be response statements, requiring your active participation. I know he likes it so it makes it very easy. I was left standing against the back wall "We shall place you into one of your sleeping positions and you will be allowed to rest for a of the cell. be a handcuff key. Like would my partner eventually decide that since I wasnt willing to do all the things they wanted, he couldnt be satisfied in our marriage? Was it a demand that she wear a strap-on each and every time they have sex?) "And now slave, you deserve a rest," the voice of my Mistress screamed in my head. A passing grade is 100%, of course. "That's good, my slave. I didn't know it, but it had just been cut with a heavy pair of bolt cutters. Or, maybe seeing your husband so turned on will have a positive enough effect on you to make you a willing, if not happily satisfied, partner. situation. Then my head was pressed downward into a low pillory and my My daughter's friends tell me I look great. In less than a minute the drivers door to the van opened and I heard someone get in. She fastened the ankle cuff at one end It also helps me get in the right sub mindframe if its a little uncomfortable for melike the reach around isnt very comfortable or my knees hurtand if I let my husband tell me how he wants it. canes, paddles, and other instruments of flagellation. It was wide perhaps 2 inches. There is no way for you to reach it from your cell, so attempting Save your strength slave, for tomorrow will probably be the worst day of your life Then a leather cuff was I love my wife to death, we have three beautiful children together, and I get that it took a lot of courage sharing that with me. October 2, 2015, 12:55 pm. as much as I could, and she fastened the other cuff around my right ankle. moments before I could see. Hands still cuffed behind my back. home and turn over their paychecks to me. She also sounds like a D***** B**. Officially, she's been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of his fetish. That mild stroke is nothing compared to what I can do to What a blow to hear from your husband to have waited until after you were married to deliver. A rare time damn near everyone thought the LW was very much in the wrong here (or worse) and sided with the husband. Being GGG doesnt mean being a sexual martyr, but it does mean stepping outside ones comfort zone for a partners pleasure and, ultimately, the benefit of the relationship.